Dating

discuss high school / college related stuff here

Moderators: Kaitou, sxetnrdrmr, billc36, iDrum, Novak, PanasonicYouth


Post new topic  Reply to topic Page 1 of 1 [ 16 posts ]
Message
Author
MurvulDrummer_17 Offline
paradiddler
paradiddler
User avatar
Posts: 88
Joined: Sat Jan 19, 2013 2:04 pm
Location: Maryville, Tennessee

Dating

Posted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 2:55 pm



What are your thought about dating other people in the drumline? Is it a problem? Does is affect your playing and/or focus?
2013 Maryville High School Snare - Cowboys & Aliens
2014 Maryville High School Snare - Selections from Stan Kenton


jplovesthequads Offline
flam dragger
flam dragger
Posts: 378
Joined: Sat Apr 02, 2011 7:35 pm
Location: US,Florida

Re: Dating

Posted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 3:34 pm



When I did, the only problem was feeling like a jerk when correcting her, and always expecting myself to be right and show good examples. Other then that it's all good.
PPCHS-Bass/Quads/Snare '10-'13
MGAMB- Snare '12
FSU Big 8- Quads '14-15

Image


dlinebass5 Offline
ramming notes
ramming notes
Posts: 527
Joined: Thu Jan 20, 2011 12:20 pm

Re:

Posted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 3:47 pm



Shutup and do it, like anyone else who marched with a girl. High-five.


moobarick Offline
paradiddler
paradiddler
Posts: 93
Joined: Fri Sep 30, 2011 7:53 pm

Re:

Posted: Thu Apr 25, 2013 11:56 am



I dated a girl in pit. are tech would always get mad at me for looking at her butt.
PHS
Xylo '10
Quads '11
Center Snare '12
Quads '13
MSU
Snare '14
GO BEARS


jbohan6 Offline
flam dragger
flam dragger
Posts: 376
Joined: Tue Nov 15, 2011 6:57 pm

Re: Dating

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2013 6:48 pm



pros: you can basically spend all of you time doing something you both enjoy together. Odds are you'll get to luck at her butt regularly. also, there are lots of late night bus rides coming back from competitions. those can be fun.

cons: if you guys are in a fight/ need space from each other, it'll be hard to maintain because you have to do band together. and, if you break up during the season it could cause lots of drama and other unneccessary things.

good luck figuring it out dudebroman
"Binaries on the Tymp-Toms gettin' kinda' cloudy."


gnarwall Offline
flam dragger
flam dragger
Posts: 204
Joined: Wed Aug 19, 2009 7:40 pm

Re:

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2013 7:41 pm



I have never seen inter-drumline relationships end well. Pit and drumline could probably work though.


lij2015 Offline
ramming notes
ramming notes
Posts: 736
Joined: Sun May 29, 2011 8:25 pm
Location: Newport News, Virginia

Re: Dating

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2013 8:04 pm



Just break up after marching season ends.
But in all seriousness, it's all about how you yourself play your cards because it goes both ways.
On one hand your guys will share mostly everything in common and on the other, it could become awkward after the end of it.
Dominion storm: 2011, 2012 Vibes/Marimba
James Madison University


VoteLobster Offline
ramming notes
ramming notes
User avatar
Posts: 988
Joined: Sun Mar 11, 2012 6:34 pm
Location: Knoxville, TN

Re: Re:

Posted: Sun Apr 28, 2013 8:37 pm



moobarick wrote:I dated a girl in pit. are tech would always get mad at me for looking at her butt.
I really want to add that to my sig
Alex Douglass
MCDC 16, 17 PR 18
Image


flamtaps5 Offline
flam dragger
flam dragger
Posts: 290
Joined: Mon Jul 30, 2012 8:55 pm
Location: Wilmington, NC

Re:

Posted: Mon Apr 29, 2013 7:20 am



It can definitely cause division. 9/10 it wont work
Josh
I play snare.


sxetnrdrmr Offline
moderator
moderator
User avatar
Posts: 2708
Joined: Sun Nov 11, 2007 9:22 pm
Location: chasing the battery around the field

Re:

Posted: Mon Apr 29, 2013 11:24 am



agree with flamtaps...

I have have an unwritten rule that there is no dating during the season in our line. The kids sort of police it themselves, but I always tell them you don't want something stupid and petty getting in the way of all the work you are going to be putting into this. They also know that I know all and see all, and that I will bluntly call people out for any jack-assery that is being caused by dating. If they can be mature about it, no problem, but if not....
Iv'e got sXe!!!!
NAATD!!!!
Up the Antix!!!!

ImageImage

Image

Its' All about the Parking Lot - Watterson Drumline
www.bishopwattersondrumline.webs.com
OSUMB Tenor tech
Pearl
Zildjian
Innovative Percussion
Remo/Evans


Sakima Offline
paradiddler
paradiddler
Posts: 128
Joined: Mon Dec 10, 2012 7:10 pm

Re: Re:

Posted: Mon Apr 29, 2013 1:23 pm



moobarick wrote:I dated a girl in pit. are tech would always get mad at me for looking at her butt.
Sounds a lot like me last season... It wasnt that distracting tho... I played fine and kept my focus while playing but just every now and then I had to glance at my girl's butt 8)
~Keep your taps down! Keep your taps down!~


Jason Offline
flam dragger
flam dragger
User avatar
Posts: 204
Joined: Tue Nov 19, 2013 2:39 pm
Location: Bradenton, FL

Re: Re:

Posted: Thu Nov 21, 2013 10:52 pm



VoteLobster wrote:
moobarick wrote:I dated a girl in pit. are tech would always get mad at me for looking at her butt.
I really want to add that to my sig
because it is wrong grammar or because of what they said?
¸,¤°ˆˆ°¤,¸..............¸,¤°ˆˆ°¤,¸..Jå$øn..¸,¤°ˆˆ°¤,¸...............¸,¤°ˆˆ°¤,..
...............ˆ°¤,¸¸,¤°ˆ.............D®µm G33K............ˆ°¤,¸¸,¤°ˆ..............

'12-'13 MHS Alto Sax "Latin Heat"
'13-'14 MHS Flute "Riverdance"
'14-'15 MHS Marimba "Styx"
'15-'16 MHS Snare "Hard Rock"
billc36 wrote:My posts are mine and mine alone.
They do not now or in the future represent any group, person (both living and dead) that I have been, am currently, or will be in the future associated with.


DanielPedroza Offline
noob
noob
Posts: 14
Joined: Mon Jun 23, 2014 9:11 pm

Re: Dating

Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 11:22 pm



Not really an inter-drumline related story, but my senior year in high school I dated a sophomore band girl, and now that we're broken up and I tech at the school I went to and she's now head drum major and working with the line a lot, it can be awkward as hell. I don't really know what you can take from that, I just felt like sharing.
Viera High School

2010 - Bass 5
2011 - Tenors
2012 - Snare (Center)
2013 - Staff
2014 - Staff
2015 - Staff

Eau Gallie High School

2015 - Staff


Matt_1423 Offline
paradiddler
paradiddler
User avatar
Posts: 84
Joined: Thu Jul 07, 2011 10:17 pm

Re: Dating

Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2014 10:24 pm



I dated a girl that was a saxophone player for most of high school (and still currently). Since we were in different sections we never spent a lot of time together during rehearsals except for breaks. Trips were always much more fun considering we spent the whole time together for the most part. And well checking her out during rehearsals was a plus too 8)
YoDemDiddlesBro wrote:However, he was probably born 99% inhuman beast badass.
Montwood High School
"Invasion" 2010 - Snare
"Elements" 2011 - Snare
"Dreamstate" 2012 - Center Snare
"Across the Universe" 2013 - Center Snare


Isaiah.Lamb Offline
playin' eights
playin' eights
Posts: 66
Joined: Wed Jun 20, 2012 9:40 pm

Re: Dating

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 3:03 pm



Matt_1423 wrote:I dated a girl that was a saxophone player for most of high school (and still currently). Since we were in different sections we never spent a lot of time together during rehearsals except for breaks. Trips were always much more fun considering we spent the whole time together for the most part. And well checking her out during rehearsals was a plus too 8)
Ewwww Saxophone!


baigern Offline
noob
noob
Posts: 18
Joined: Tue Nov 05, 2013 7:55 pm

Re: Re:

Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 9:15 am



moobarick wrote:I dated a girl in pit. are tech would always get mad at me for looking at her butt.
That's me everyday during rehearsal. :lol:
North Crowley High School
'12 - Garden of Dreams - Tenors
'13 - Revolution: The Music of Tchaikovsky - Tenors
'14 - Elegance and Power: The Classics - Tenors
'15 - Mirror of Me - Tenors
Image


Post new topic  Reply to topic Page 1 of 1 [ 16 posts ]





Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 1 guest

You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum